I think my experience getting into this style of life is rather humorous. At least to me.
Like probably the majority of partnerships where this is brought up, it came from my husband. We had always enjoyed some porn movies involved with our sex whenever we could. He started playing movies where there were 3 somes, 2 males and a woman, swinger movies, and just one on one cheating movies. He never commented on what was going on besides the sex acts themselves. I found them really a turn on but never let on to him.
One night he just up and asked me if I would be willing to have sex with another male while he watched? I replied, what? How could you ask that? I am only faithful to you and you give me all I need. In my mind I was going, yes, bring him on. Give me some variety. He apologized for asking. The movie was still on, some lady getting it doggy style from her horny neighbor. I turned to him and asked if he wanted to talk about it. Just what was on his mind that led him to ask that. The concerned wife that really didn’t want the conversation to end.
He explained about how he has been imagining seeing me with another male. Watching me give and get pleasure from a different perspective. I said, you want a threesome. He immediately said no, not at all. He just wanted to watch me and then later he and I have our time together sexually. He wanted me pleased by another and then use that stimulation we got to put into a session together. He didn’t want a threesome because he thought it would feel like competing with another guy.
I was like, well, you seem pretty in to this idea so I would have to really think about it for awhile. Yes, he said. Take your time. We can discuss it more later. I said OK. I told him to turn off the movie and I wanted to go to sleep. Keep him on edge. He did that and I asked, so, do you already have someone in mind you want to fuck me? He answered that he had thought about that and did think of someone. I asked who? He answered Chuck. Oh, I answered. My head went right to Chuck. I mean Chuck for gods sake is like a greek god to me. Everything I have ever seen of him which was limited to the beach was wow, wow, wow. I wanted to mix this through my brain now so I just said, Chuck, OK, we’ll talk tomorrow. Still playing hard to get. That night I layed in bed fantasizing about Chuck and to be honest it wasn’t the first time. In the morning I was still really horny when I woke up so I insisted on some morning sex from the husband.
Later in the next day hubby brought it up. I questioned everything. His motivation, his desires to watch me with another, his fears of a threesome, how we could even pull this off, what would he think of me afterwards, and why Chuck. I have to admit that he had everything thought out and his answers fit perfectly into my thinking. Why Chuck? Evidently he had made some comments about me that got hubby to think he would love to be my sexual partner but too bad I was taken already. Hubby thinks he would jump at the chance to be with me. We have known Chuck for maybe 8 years and have good feelings about him.
A week passed with hubby bringing it up daily now. He even told me that he asked chuck if he ever had a chance to bed me, would he. He told him in heartbeat. No, he didn’t ask him to do it yet. I kept up the same questions and showed him I was indecisive even though I now wanted chuck more and more. Finally I told my husband that while I would be really nervous and not even sure I could go through with it until the end, if that is what he wanted, I would give it a try just for him. He was all giddy and said he would ask chuck in a couple days. I then asked, what happens if I like it. Husband tells me as far as he is concerned, I can keep going as long as I like. I answered him with, maybe i won’t like it or maybe I will. He should just know that even if I like it, if he stops liking it, I would stop. This is all for him.
A week later Chuck is sitting in my living room and already has agreed to my husbands offer of me. Hubby had Chuck and I sitting together. Small talk then some leg touching and then some necking. It didn’t take much for me getting all wet and wanting him. He seemed pretty turned on too by the way his pants were now bulging. Impressive too. My husband then suggested we move to the bedroom. It was like right on cue. Off we all went to the bedroom.
Chuck sat on the foot of the bed and pulled me to be right in front of him. Hubby moved a chair where he was off a corner of the foot of the bed. He could see the foot and side of the bed. Maybe 6 or 7 feet away. Chuck put his hands on me and started feeling me all over while I was still in my clothes. He started telling me how he had only dreamed of this ever being possible. He said all the right things and was complimenting my body freely. I had enough so I started removing my clothes. I removed my shirt and bra and then reached over and removed his tee shirt. I undid his button on his pants and pulled down his zipper. OMG, no undershorts and his manhood popped right up. It couldn’t come out all the way because the zipper wasn’t long enough. I stood back up and slipped down my pants along with my paties at the same time. He rose up a bit at the same time and slid his pants down. Now I could see him in his entire self and it was impressive. He was definitely bigger than hubby. I mean, way bigger in both length and how wide it was. I have seen enough porn to know he isn’t the biggest but I admit, the biggest I have ever experienced.
I looked over at my husband to see his reaction. He just smiled. I lipped wow to him. He still smiled. I went back to what was in front of me since fingers were now starting to explore my obvious wetness. A few seconds of that was enough for me. I wanted to do my own exploring. I pushed Chuck back onto the bed and bent over him grabbing that hard shaft and pointing it towards my waiting mouth. I surrounded it with my somewhat stretched lips and just started tasting all I could. It wasn’t all but what I could I found delicious and feeling so good. I must have been doing good because I could hear him starting to moan. Then they stopped. He reached down and pulled my head off his cock.. He rose back up and stood up in front of me. Body to body. His one hand moved to my breast and played with my mipple. his other hand moved to my face and then he leaned in and we kissed. I mean we kissed. It was so pasioonate that my knees were getting weak. Then he pinched my nipple. I melted. How did he know that when worked up, a pinched nipple or 2 sends lightening through me right to my wet vagina? Doesn’t matter, he did it and I was now jelly. He lowered me on to the bed on my back. He kept his hand on my nipple lightly squeezing it. He spread my legs apart and his face met my wetness. His other hand now raised up and took my other nipple. I could feel him exploring me and taking in my wetness as a refreshment. His fingers flicked and rubbed my nipples. I was building as he went deeper with his exploration. He knew I was building and when he must have thought i was on high, he squeezed both nipples. That took me over the edge. I mean a rush up a 100 foot peak and jumping off. My mind was mush. My body jerking in pleasure and I think I was saying yes, yes, yes.
He kept it going and one orgasm led to another orgasm that right away led to a third. It was then he started to back off but still paying tender attention to my bulging clit. I had to stop though. I needed a breather. I was spent already. I never get this much attention. Problem, it wasn’t over and I probably didn’t really want it to be over. Chuck climbed up over me and I spread and lifted my legs for him. He guided his hot shaft in to me slowly and thankfully so. I was really wet but like I said, he was wider than I ever experienced. He was gentle but after a bit of back and forth, he was in all the way. I could feel it stretching me but in a nice way. he started moving and I could feel every ripple in his cock. In out, in, out nice and slowly. He started picking up speed and I could feel another orgasm building within me. This was not normal for me because I never orgasm with penetration. Still, it was building and as he increased speed I increased that feeling building until it released. It was different but really good. He was moving quickly and I could feel he was close. I told him, cum on me, I want to see it. A second or 2 later he pulls out and starts shooting all over my breast and finally stomach. I wanted a little too so I pulled him up closer to me and sucked out whatever i could get. He was still delicious.
I felt so good and he seemed to share the feeling as he laid next to me gently rubbing my skin. Shit, the I remembered i had a husband who was an audience for the entire thing. Totally forgot about him. I looked at him and whoo, still smiling and I could tell he was pretty excited. That wet spot he was making through his pants was pretty good evidence. Hubby got me a towel and I cleaned off. We got dressed and went back to the living room. We all sat around and again with the small talk and Chuck left maybe a half hour later.
Husband then started telling me how great I was and how I was such a turn on. How he so much enjoyed seeing me get and give pleasure without him. Said he almost cum in his pants without touching and did all he could not to touch himself because he knew that one touch would have got him off. I asked if he was sure he wasn’t upset? He told me no way. He asked if i was OK, I just replied, I guess so. Then he told me that he wanted to fuck me really bad. Damn, I had to be honest and tell him that I was rather sore down there and if it was OK, could I just suck his cock for him. He didn’t hesitate to say yes. I went over before him. He pulled down his pants and I am guessing once in my mouth it took all of ten seconds for him to start shooting madly in my mouth. More cum than I think he has ever produced. I couldn’t keep it all in. Yep, he must have enjoyed the show.
the next day he questioned me on my feeling. I said I enjoyed it because he wanted me to do it. I asked he was satisfied now. He told me that it was OK with him if I continued to fuck Chuck or anybody else I wished as long as it could never come back as an embarrassment to either of us. I said I would think about it. That lasted about a week until Chuck and I were putting on another show for the hubby. almost 2 years later now, Chuck and I still fuck as well as Tim, Darrel, and Skip and I. Once with all of them, sometimes with 2 of them, most times with one at a time. I did not keep count. Husband still watches but not always. We still have a great loving relationship and he gets his due regularly.