How do women in female-led relationships punish their men

 

Punishment is a corrective measure that hopefully will only be needed on rare occasions.

For first offenses, the punishment may be mild and considered to be more of a teaching moment.

Repeat offenses need to be dealt with more harshly. At that point he is considered trained, so in addition to the original misbehavior, there is also a punishment for willful disobedience.

Before any punishment, be sure to tell him “I am disappointed in you.” The worst punishment by far is the shame he feels inside for displeasing you.

Punishments shouldn't be fun.

It should be something he genuinely doesn't enjoy. It’s a punishment, after all, not funishment.

Correcting your man’s bad behavior doesn’t have to involve pain.

For example, you could…

Make him stand in a corner.

Make him exercise (if he’s healthy enough to do so).

Make him do extra chores.

Make him handwrite repetitious sentences 1,000 times.

Remove privileges or take away something he likes.

Ignore him.

Withhold sex.

These are just a few of the tools you have at your disposal. They are all effective.

And if he continually disobeys you, you can threaten the nuclear option of ending the FLR. After all, he’s supposed to be serving you, not adding stress to your life. If he won’t obey what’s the point?

Also remember to reward him when he’s good. Men in FLRs like positive reinforcement when their service pleases you.

How to humiliate a male submissive

 There are many ways to humiliate a male submissive. If fact, keeping a male sub in a constant state of shame and degradation is a good way to maintain him at maximum submissiveness. Here are some of the basic ideas:

Start with CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male). A sub must be naked at all times in private. Dommes wear clothes because 1) that's what civilized people do, 2) the sub has no business ever seeing her unclothed body.

Shave his whole body. That's right. Everything. Maybe let him keep his eyebrows. At a minimum, his pubes need to be shaved. No sub is allowed to have pubic hair.

Now give him some accessories. A chastity cage is a must. It controls his orgasms and lets everyone know he a pathetic beta who isn't even allowed to get hard.

Add a butt plug so he can constantly feel his filled up "man pussy." And, of course, he will have his slave collar and matching wrist and ankle cuffs to complete his attire.

A sub must be given an embarrassing name. A dog name like Fido is good. Or make up an embarrassing name, such as Latrina. If you can't think of anything, just refer to him as Slut or Worm Boy.

Give him a steady diet of degradation. Call him a "stupid bitch," make fun of his small joke of a penis that can never satisfy any women, reinforce that he's a loser beta and that only your pleasure matters.

Make him ask for permission to do anything and don’t grant permission easily. Make him BEG.

Give him eye-contact restrictions. He is never to make eye-contact with you without permission. Also give strict speech restrictions and when he is allowed to speak, make sure he use honorifics, i.e. Mistress, Domina, Goddess, etc. If he speaks out of turn, gag him.

Be sure to give him a weekly maintenance caning so his butt remains beet red with fresh, new welts.

The sub must eat his meals from a dog bowl or directly off the floor, and then wash it down with his Mistress's golden nectar.

A sub is not allowed to use furniture, however, sometimes he can be furniture. Subs make nice footstools. If you're a smoker, use his mouth as an ashtray. Also spit into his mouth regularly.

Mark him as yours. Force him to get a tattoo saying "Property of Mistress ______." Make him get a P.A. piercing and nipple piercings. Brand him with your initials.

Ways to sexually humiliate hubby in order of degree - Ways to sexually humiliate hubby in order of degree

 

Make hubby wear women’s tights/panties under clothing.

Talk about very well-endowed ex-boyfriend (WEEB) privately using comparative terms.

Drop subtle hints to hubby that best sex of your life WAS NOT with him.

Mention something you did with / to well-endowed ex-boyfriend that was more illicit than anything you’ve done with hubby.

Drop hints that you were more sexually permissive with WEEB specifically because his cock was bigger. Say things like, “Are you kidding? For that cock, I would do anything.” or “Well, don’t you think he deserved it? With a cock like that?”

Choose a semi-attractive male friend (or find a discreet one) who would openly have a crush on your. Train hubby to accept that you enjoy and deserve the extra attention. Use talk about how you enjoy the innocent attention while giving hubby a handjob.

Tie pink velvet ribbon snugly around hubby’s balls.

Make hubby walk around house in women’s tights and t-shirt.

Make hubby wear black tights under clothing with ankles exposed.

Make hubby wear PINK tights under clothing with ankles exposed.

Casually mention how you LOVE giving a guy a blowjob. Be sure to use correct verbiage: Don’t say things like “I love giving you blowjobs.” Do say things like “Giving a guy a blowjob is my favorite thing.”

Gradually replace blowjobs with handjobs.

If/when hubby complains about infrequency of blowjobs, tell him, “I don’t see YOU giving blowjobs and getting cum in your mouth. When you taste a load of your own cum, then I’ll start giving you more blowjobs.

Start telling him to defer his orgasms during sex. (“Don’t cum. Not yet.”)

Train hubby not to cum until you give him permission.

Train hubby to pull out and cum on your leg / foot. (Wearing hosiery makes this more exciting.) Eventually tell him he should always cum on your foot, even without your direction.

Gradually replace penetrative sex with handjobs for him. Talk about how it’s more enjoyable for you.

After handjob, have hubby taste his cum from your fingers.

Make hubby wear male chastity device

Talk about very well-endowed ex-boyfriend in front of friends.

Google “beautiful uncut cock” and find a picture of a beautiful penis about 25% bigger than hubby’s. Print it out and frame it and keep it on your nightstand. Tell hubby is your ex-boyfriend’s cock and you like to look at it while falling asleep and during sex.

Choose a semi-attractive female confidante (or find a discreet one) who will meet your hubby. She will act as sort of an accomplice or like a comedic “straight man” would. Choose someone whose attention your hubby would enjoy, but who wouldn’t distract him from you. (Don’t tell her I said that. ;) ) Educate confidante on helping to gently humiliate hubby sexually.

Gradually mention humiliating tidbits to her about hubby, in front of hubby. (“Michelle, have you ever made your guy wear women’s tights? I make my hubby walk around the house in pink tights.” or “My best sex ever was with college boyfriend. His dick was huge.”)

Have hubby model tights in front of female confidante.

Give hubby handjob in front of female confidante. Make him cum on your foot in front of her.

Have hubby wear pink tights and give your confidante a foot massage.

Loan hubby to female confidante to walk around her place in tights.

Have hubby cum on confidante’s foot while you watch and help.

Mention a fantasy of getting pregnant by another “type” of guy who is very different from your hubby.

Ask hubby if he has ever thought about giving another guy a blowjob.

Encourage hubby to think about blowing another guy. Pet him while talking about it. Train him to associate your affection / his orgasm with the idea of servicing another guy orally.

Have sex with another man

Have sex with another man and make hubby watch

Have sex with hubby’s friend (find a discreet new friend who is completely isolated from your circle of friends/family specifically for this purpose. Have him establish friendship with hubby first.)

Have hubby spend guy time with your lover — fishing / boating / camping trips. Train your boyfriend to gently brag to hubby about fucking you or making you cum a lot.