Make hubby wear women’s tights/panties under clothing.
Talk about very well-endowed ex-boyfriend (WEEB) privately using comparative terms.
Drop subtle hints to hubby that best sex of your life WAS NOT with him.
Mention something you did with / to well-endowed ex-boyfriend that was more illicit than anything you’ve done with hubby.
Drop hints that you were more sexually permissive with WEEB specifically because his cock was bigger. Say things like, “Are you kidding? For that cock, I would do anything.” or “Well, don’t you think he deserved it? With a cock like that?”
Choose a semi-attractive male friend (or find a discreet one) who would openly have a crush on your. Train hubby to accept that you enjoy and deserve the extra attention. Use talk about how you enjoy the innocent attention while giving hubby a handjob.
Tie pink velvet ribbon snugly around hubby’s balls.
Make hubby walk around house in women’s tights and t-shirt.
Make hubby wear black tights under clothing with ankles exposed.
Make hubby wear PINK tights under clothing with ankles exposed.
Casually mention how you LOVE giving a guy a blowjob. Be sure to use correct verbiage: Don’t say things like “I love giving you blowjobs.” Do say things like “Giving a guy a blowjob is my favorite thing.”
Gradually replace blowjobs with handjobs.
If/when hubby complains about infrequency of blowjobs, tell him, “I don’t see YOU giving blowjobs and getting cum in your mouth. When you taste a load of your own cum, then I’ll start giving you more blowjobs.
Start telling him to defer his orgasms during sex. (“Don’t cum. Not yet.”)
Train hubby not to cum until you give him permission.
Train hubby to pull out and cum on your leg / foot. (Wearing hosiery makes this more exciting.) Eventually tell him he should always cum on your foot, even without your direction.
Gradually replace penetrative sex with handjobs for him. Talk about how it’s more enjoyable for you.
After handjob, have hubby taste his cum from your fingers.
Make hubby wear male chastity device
Talk about very well-endowed ex-boyfriend in front of friends.
Google “beautiful uncut cock” and find a picture of a beautiful penis about 25% bigger than hubby’s. Print it out and frame it and keep it on your nightstand. Tell hubby is your ex-boyfriend’s cock and you like to look at it while falling asleep and during sex.
Choose a semi-attractive female confidante (or find a discreet one) who will meet your hubby. She will act as sort of an accomplice or like a comedic “straight man” would. Choose someone whose attention your hubby would enjoy, but who wouldn’t distract him from you. (Don’t tell her I said that. ;) ) Educate confidante on helping to gently humiliate hubby sexually.
Gradually mention humiliating tidbits to her about hubby, in front of hubby. (“Michelle, have you ever made your guy wear women’s tights? I make my hubby walk around the house in pink tights.” or “My best sex ever was with college boyfriend. His dick was huge.”)
Have hubby model tights in front of female confidante.
Give hubby handjob in front of female confidante. Make him cum on your foot in front of her.
Have hubby wear pink tights and give your confidante a foot massage.
Loan hubby to female confidante to walk around her place in tights.
Have hubby cum on confidante’s foot while you watch and help.
Mention a fantasy of getting pregnant by another “type” of guy who is very different from your hubby.
Ask hubby if he has ever thought about giving another guy a blowjob.
Encourage hubby to think about blowing another guy. Pet him while talking about it. Train him to associate your affection / his orgasm with the idea of servicing another guy orally.
Have sex with another man
Have sex with another man and make hubby watch
Have sex with hubby’s friend (find a discreet new friend who is completely isolated from your circle of friends/family specifically for this purpose. Have him establish friendship with hubby first.)
Have hubby spend guy time with your lover — fishing / boating / camping trips. Train your boyfriend to gently brag to hubby about fucking you or making you cum a lot.